How to Champion Change in a Conservative Community as a Teen Girl

1. Be Aware of the Cultural Context

A lot of conservative communities tend to hold more “traditional” views when it comes to various topics like politics and gender roles. Before trying to spark any conversation regarding change it is important to understand the context in which your audience comes from. Change always begins with knowing who you are trying to reach.

2. Avoid Opinions; Opt for Facts

When having a constructive conversation with someone it is better to rely on data to prove your points rather than opinion. This way you ensure that you are having a constructive conversation with valid and valuable points, making your conversation less accusatory and more open. That being said it’s perfectly fine to add personal experiences or anecdotes to your argument (in fact it often makes it more relatable) but, just make sure it's not your entire argument. 

For example a conversation might go a little something like this…

“I think we need more female elected officials”

“I think we have more than enough, and besides what difference does it make”

“Well women make up 51% of our population, but they only occupy 28.5% seats in Congress.” 

“I mean I guess but how does it affect us?”

“With more female representation we have people advocating for things like reproductive rights, gender pay gap, and equality in general”

“I guess I never thought about it like that”

3. Start Small

Partaking in advocacy doesn't mean you need to organize a nationwide protest movement (no complaints if you do end up doing that though).  You can make a difference just in your local community. For example, handing out informational pamphlets on an issue that you feel strongly for or running a petition signing booth in a busy area of town are both ways where you can spread your message and gain support for your cause. Even emailing your local senators and representatives on topics you believe are pressing is a great way to make your issues known to legislatures in your area. 

4. Use Social Media to Your Advantage

Social media is an incredibly powerful tool when it comes to communicating and spreading awareness. Whether it's reposting articles that report on issues pressing to you or creating an account where you share bite sized information bits on topics of your choice, social media platforms are a great way to reach out to large amounts of people. I recommend being as vocal as possible regarding your views to ensure your message is heard loud and clear. Of course this comes with a balance and it is always important to remain respectful and courteous when interacting online with people who disagree with your views.

5. Listen, Understand, and Collaborate

Advocacy and petition for change increases in success when done collaboratively. Reach out to local businesses, organizations, and even friends. Never underestimate the power of co collaboration when it comes to spreading your message and making an impact.  Teaming up with people who share the same vision as you allows you to spread your message further and faster. After all, we are stronger in numbers. 

6. Persistence Even When Met With Resistance

And finally, always remember that it is perfectly normal to face resistance when trying to facilitate change. Some people don't like the idea of change and that's OK. It's important to understand others’ boundaries and be respectful when sharing your ideas. Remember it's not about winning an argument, it's about helping someone else see your perspective. Nobody’s mind will change in a day, it's all about the small shifts in perspective that build overtime. 

Sources

Center for American Women and Politics. “Current Numbers.” Cawp.rutgers.edu, Eagleton Institute of Politics, 2025, cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/current-numbers.